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”Japanese Salon Supporter project”
by International Association.
Talk over the Foreigner's Worries
1990s
1,Want to have a baby. Why could I pregnant?
2, Foreinger discrimination problem at the school.
2000s
1,Japanese Food culture and anxiety to child raising.
2,Depression and want to die.
3,Anxiety to my child's future.
2010s
1,Children's education and thier future.
2,Anxiety for the first child raising. |
1990s
Foreigners who came to Japan to work as a dancer or hostess wanted to have a baby by her Japanese husband because of her visa.
2000s
Before coming to Japan, they thought "Japan is dream country and longing country". Realities were not like this. They were suffering from mental disease.
2010s
Foreign women who live in Japan have high educated, stand on their own legs and respect each other. Their anxieties are children's future.
I first interpreted to foreign mothers even a small question what a specialist was saying. Soon, they talked to me their problems.
The purpose of the establishment?
* Koala is the place for foreign mother and kids.
* If Mother is not happy, child can't be happy too.
* Want you to learn Japanese society by interact with Japanese mother.
* Never isolate from the society.
* Don't worry alone and ask me.
* Want you to be happy in Japan.
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In order to solve their problems, I talked with their Japanese husbands, I am not an officer so that I don't have to report about your case.
He understood my volunteer situation and he talked to me franky and led to solve.
There are slightly differences between "Support" and "Meddlesome". For the settlement, I steped in their problems.
After it was resolve, I stood apart.
Don't involve the money problem.
ex.1, She couldn't pay the charges for gas so I paid those instead of her. Such my conduct became quite usual with er after a year.
I lost my motivation to support and broke with her.
ex.2, A woman who was suffered from domestic violence by her husband and stayed overnight at her several friends's house.
I donated to woman for 3 nights hotel fee and sent to the shelter.
Some foreigners who speak Japanese but not read and write, tend to increase these days. I use Koala materials at the class,
like a picture book and Origami.
Remarks
Japanese support volunteers don't know how to solve foreigner's problems since they don't have experiences. We have learned a lot theory but It is
different from practice. Today, your lecture was helpful.
Yonezawa san had been attending the World Women's Conference (N.Y. China, Spain, Canada, India) and remarked Japanese women looked
down from the world's women because Japanese never give their views. Malaysian women lead among the Asia.
1, Take it easy 2, Don't wast 3, Don't flock.
Yonezawa san has a plan to attend 2017 The World Women's Congress in Brazil.
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